Road Tripping with a Toddler was...Enjoyable?
The ABC's of road tripping with a toddler
Driving is my least favorite mode of transportation, but we had the opportunity to see the New England foliage in the fall. It has been a bucket list item of mine and having our 3-year-old with us was not going to stop me from seeing this part of the world. I just knew I had to prepare myself for HOURS of fun in the car with a kid. To my surprise it was completely enjoyable. I still am not a fan of riding in the car for long periods of time, but with these 3 tips we had a great time and I know I could do it again. Let me share with you what I did so that maybe you too can have a more enjoyable road trip.
A: ACTIVITIES: I packed, and overpacked things to do in the car. I started by buying a DMoose travel tray. I had done some research on different travel trays, and this is the one I went with because it had great reviews, was sturdy, didn’t take up too much room, had straps to hold things in, and I like the wipe clean surface. I also liked that it had a strap that went around the whole car seat and not just my son. It stayed up right the whole trip without my son having to hold it up with his knees. Genius in my opinion. I used my son’s carry on suitcase to haul all his road trip STUFF. I would have put snacks in there too, but I really over prepared activities, so snacks had their own bag. I really wanted to keep screen time to a minimum with as many hours as we would be on the road so I did some shopping. I knew that NEW things would be most exciting, so I gave myself a budget and bought some fun things. I kept in mind that these activities needed to be done IN THE CAR, and as independently as possible. I say independently because I get car sick easily and knew I wouldn’t be able to sit in the back for long periods of time playing with him, plus….I wanted to enjoy the drive too. So, I purchased a magnetic dress up doll, a lcd writing board, window clings from the dollar store, and those Wow water coloring books. I also brought a bunch of things that we already had at home including play dough, books, monster trucks, and crayons. One additional thing that I brought were items from Big Adventure Box. Now this company specializes in creating boxes for road trips, flights, or any kind of family vacation. I filled out a form letting them know where we were going and what kind of transportation. They sent a personalized letter and box for my son with a notebook and pen for him to draw notes, and pictures. The box also had games, activities, and toys that he could play with in the car. Some of the games we played together. One really cool item was a stuffed frog that he was able to use as a pillow when he got tired during our drive. It was such a thoughtful box of items. I would purchase a box again for our next flight or road trip. It was fun for all of us. In the end, we only watched part of a movie on the IPad on the 2nd to last day of travel. I was so happy to see my son having such a good time despite being stuck in a car for so long.
B: BREAKS: Taking breaks was necessary. If not for a 3 year old, but for the parents. Sitting in a car can be exhausting…how is that possible, anyway. Part of the charm of traveling through New England are all of the little towns. There isn’t just one main highway to get you from point A to B. You must travel through small towns. Seeing little road side stands, or even the little gas stations just make me want to pull over. A giant wooden fish in front of a gas station? You have to stop! Or, learning that Stewart’s Gas Stations serve hand scooped ice cream?!? Hello! We have to stop for that. Random fall pumpkin patch? Yes! We took enough breaks to keep us happy, but not too many to waste time. Breaks are necessary.
C: Considerate : Be considerate of your little traveler. Being considerate means planning. If we could plan a longer stint of driving around nap time…we would. We deviated to visit friends on our way to Ben & Jerry’s because we knew that the 30 minute drive to their house would give us time out of the car running around before sitting in the car for 2 hours. It was worth the deviation. We would do active things before getting in the car, so that our Buddy was ready to relax. We listened to him. If he was “all done” we’d take a break or I’d go back and play with him. At one stop we went into the gas station and let him pick a treat, and he chose a candy bar… A candy bar that we already had in the car. But because that is the treat he picked we bought it. It was his choice. He was handling this road trip like a champ and if he wanted the exact same candy bar that we already had in the car, but he wanted this specific one…sure. He may be little, but I’m all about respecting him. He didn’t choose to go on this road trip, but he’s here and he’s doing well.
I’m telling you, these 3 tips really made our trip so great, and special. So many great memories. We all had a great time. I’d do a road trip again, in a heartbeat. I’ve got great travel companions. I think having the right activities, giving breaks, and being considerate of all of the travelers (even the littlest) makes it so much more enjoyable.



